Keeping the Family Afloat in Financial Storms

With rising unemployment and under-employment, family finances are becoming more and more of a challenge. And problem finances can create all kinds of other family problems. But there are ways to deal with family finances head one, without avoiding the painful reality. The first and most important thing to face is that: odds are you're not in as bad financial shape as you think – the problem is probably your attitude about money. Auburn University found that only a small percent of the couples reporting money problems actually had inadequate income. There are ways to change your thinking about money.

Family Meetings. Good family communication starts with the family getting together on a regular basis. Once you've got your family meetings going, you can introduce the family budget as a meeting topic. Manda Turetsky gives us great hints about how to best use family meetings for family budget planning, including measurable goals and priority setting. It's important not to shield family from the realities of life. Hiding creates shame. If you shelter the family from financial realities and responsibilities, you may create the very harm you seek to avoid – more financial problems for them as adults.

Stay Flexible. When trouble hits, Rosemary Lichtman says "stay flexible." That way, you can adjust to what comes rather than letting it overwhelm you. If you're not the one with the outside job in your home, do you know enough about the family finances to take over if necessary? You should. Here's six helpful tips from Lichtman.

Troubling times can mean opportunities for individuals and families. A coach can help you see outside the limits you perceive, and help you See a new future for yourself and your family.

www.ManifestationCoaching.com